When Love and Authority Live Outside Us
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When Love and Authority Live Outside Us

What is the first thing a child learns about love? Long before we have language for it, love comes from outside us. Someone feeds us. Holds us. Protects us. Comforts…

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What Actually Happens in a Biosenetics Session?
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What Actually Happens in a Biosenetics Session?

People sometimes ask me what happens during a Biosenetics session. The simplest answer might be: You arrive. I ask questions. And then the magic happens. Which is not terribly helpful…

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The Grail I Have Given Up
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The Grail I Have Given Up

The Grail I Have Given Up If you’ve been reading some of what I’ve written lately, you’ve probably realised I’ve been doing some fairly serious soul-searching. Some things have changed…

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The Grail Quest Is Over
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The Grail Quest Is Over

What happens when you stop needing to find The Way I have spent a very large part of my life looking for answers. Not little answers. Apparently, I couldn’t make…

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. Who Have You Quietly Become?
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. Who Have You Quietly Become?

They help us organise the world. The problem begins when we stop seeing the person and only see the role. Or perhaps, even more quietly… When we only see ourselves…

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What If I Was Never Broken?
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What If I Was Never Broken?

I have spent much of my life wondering whether I was simply not very good at being human. I can be warm. I can be social. I talk to strangers…

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Have You Retired From Work, But Not From the Care Plan?
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Have You Retired From Work, But Not From the Care Plan?

A reflection on responsibility, hypervigilance, comfort, and what restores the restorers This is not a blog about men versus women. It is not a blog about pink bedrooms, fluffy cushions,…

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Sovereignty Needs Shoes: Why Protection Is Not Enough
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Sovereignty Needs Shoes: Why Protection Is Not Enough

Sovereignty Needs Shoes: Why Protection Is Not Enough If you have spent any time in spiritual, intuitive, healing, or energy spaces, you have probably heard some version of this advice:…

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Why Sensitive People Need Structure, Not Pressure
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Why Sensitive People Need Structure, Not Pressure

Especially when the heart has been carrying too much for too long There were years I thought sensitivity was the problem. I thought if I could just feel less, manage…

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Sensitivity Is Not Meant to Be a Cross
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Sensitivity Is Not Meant to Be a Cross

There is a way sensitivity is often spoken about in spiritual and healing spaces that sounds beautiful on the surface. Sensitive people are told they are gifted.Empaths are told they…

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